by Dr. David Davis
It is hard to believe that the start of school has begun and that the football season will begin shortly. Hundreds of area athletes have already reported to their various high school sports programs preparing to do their very best as they represent their family, school, and community.
It seems like only yesterday when my son, Landon, was getting his first taste of competitive football at the Jr. High level. Now, he is married, a successful engineer, and a father of three wonderful boys.
When he first decided to participate in the PHS football program — I told him that he was going to have to work hard and make it on his own. He did and was an All-District tight end for the Oilers.
I made a commitment years ago that if one or more of my four children wanted to participate in competitive sports, I was going to be totally supportive of their decision, but I would remain silent and supportive to the respective coaches.
I guess that comes from the example my parents set when I played in high school and college.
My mom and dad would attend each game, watch me play, and then go home. They were never vocal, they never chastised a coach, nor did they ever berate a coach when I got home. I can honestly say that my folks never criticized any of my coaches at any level.
There were people who watched me play who didn’t even know who my parents were. Only their close friends knew where they sat and who their son was on a given Friday night in high school or on a Saturday in college.
I took the same stance with my son, and he knows that I never uttered one word of criticism regarding the Pearland coaching staff.
As the 2023 sports season gets underway, it would be a good idea for parents to be totally supportive of their children. This also includes being supportive of the coaches who are committed to your student-athlete.
While all of us want to see our teams win, it is equally important to maintain a consistent level of support for each student-athlete and their coaches. No team goes out to intentionally lose. A strong support base of love and faithfulness is essential for all involved. You will be a lot happier if you look at the whole picture and maintain a sense of decency and self-control.
Also – don’t forget about those who participate in the band, cheerleaders, drill team, cross country, volleyball, and tennis. They also sweat in this sweltering heat and spend countless hours preparing for their time in the spotlight or competing for their respective high schools.
I am excited as the fall sports season begins. I want every student-athlete to be successful. But remember — they are students, first — and then athletes. So wear your team’s colors and spirit clothing with pride — support each of the young men and women who are participating — and enjoy this time of the year. There is nothing better than being a part of the high school sports scene.
I think I can hear the band playing now! Won’t you join me?
Old friend Robert said, “I am too positive to be doubtful. Too optimistic to be fearful. And too determined to be defeated.”
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